I was browsing through my friendster and I found out that this girl viewed my profile.  Curious, I clicked on her picture and found out many interesting things about her.  She dated someone that was not of her race and color. She described the relationship as ying and yang.  Sometimes it was complete bliss and heaven and yet other times it was difficult because of each others differences.  They were together for 2 years and when the seperation occured it was one of the biggest shocks for her. She thought that she did everything right and that it wasn't her fault. When they both met for the last time, she asked him why they seperated, he replied in saying this : " Do you know what my favorite types of books are?" "Do you know what my favorite cake is?"  "Do you know why i like the rain?"

 

These questions shocked her....for being together for nearly two years, she didn't know any of those answers. He complained that he did his best to help her and make her happy...but in the end she forgot about him even though she still considered him her boyfriend.  She never thought about what made him happy, what effort was made to make him smile, it all ended up being her paradise and his nightmare. 

 

The freedom given was taken for granted, the love given was taken for granted, and most of all the person's heart given was taken for granted. It takes two hands to clap, it takes two hands to keep warm.

 

What it this is whats happening to me?  Am I having this type of crisis? Sigh....